She would go on and on after we left about how she 'wasn't gay' and didn't know why 'she just assumes that I'm gay because I have short hair. We would go out as a group, and the waitress at one restaurant would always try to pick her up. They assume you're gay for whatever reason and you get so frustrated! Do you get frustrated when people assume that you're gay? And it's not because you are a man who can dress well or a woman who loves sports and is athletic.